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Monday, March 19, 2007

This Is Not Marilyn

is not Marilyn


A few weeks ago, this image replaced images of women in black and red PVC bodysuits as advertisements for Montreal's sex boutique Sexe Cité. I love the fact that sex stores in Montreal advertise in the metro, and that no one here gets offended that the kiddies might see something they're not supposed to.

The image itself, however, makes me want to claw my eyes out.

I'm not going to get into the issue of whether or not North America's most recognisable sex symbol would or would not have worn plus-sized clothes today. Completely unconfirmed internet research puts her measurements somewhere in the vicinity of 37"-23"-36" Any woman who's shopped for clothes in a mall knows that that's definitely in the large/extra-large range. I don't really care if she would have been a size 16, or a size 12, or even a size 10, but I think any less than that is stretching the point.

It offends me the way that this image of a lush, curved, sexy woman has been co-opted into a stick figure. It offends me most that this emaciated model is considered more sexy than her iconic progenitor.

This is not to say that thin women cannot be attractive. Some are, certainly. Though it's not as if that's something you hear every day. Every media image out there of what a woman "should" look like reinforces society's views, and not mine. We can all quote facts and statistics - about Barbie, about supermodels, about the smooth, thin legs of pre-pubescent girls passed off as those of adults - they're not important. We know that society's idea of beauty is impossibly skewed. There's only so much reminding that we can do.

If you see this ad, please be disgusted. Even if you do nothing about it, if you don't even mention it, blog about it, or write an angry letter to the company about it, please be disgusted. Hold a company morally responsible in your own heart for its part in arbitrarily setting beauty standards and dividing women from each other.

6 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

really? I don't see that as trying to be an impression of Marilyn, just a retro "look." And I wouldn't call that model emaciated or stick-thin (both because i've been healthy at the same shape & because i don't see why it's any more acceptable to call another woman names for being thin than for being fat).

12:21 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I love you.

10:01 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

First, you really have no indication by that photo that they were trying to copy Marilyn Monroe.

Second, Monroe's clothing size doesn't do much justice to what body type she really had, since clothing sizes have drastically changed over the years. (http://www.snopes.com/movies/actors/mmdress.asp)

Third, there is no way Monroe would have been "plus size" in her time or ours. Her info, from when she appeared in Playboy:
Playboy centerfold
Appearance December 1953
Birthplace Los Angeles, California
Birthdate June 1, 1926 (1926-06-01)
Measurements 35C - 22 - 35
Height 5 ft 5½ in
Weight 115 - 120 lb

35-22-35 at 5 ft 5 and weighing 120 lbs is HARDLY plus size. I'm not plus size, yet I'd kill for that type of body.

7:09 PM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Great work.

1:55 AM

 
Anonymous Anonymous said...

As a thin woman who cannot gain weight no matter how hard she tries (different people, different metabolisms) it always hurts me to read comments such as these. "real women have real curves", comparing this model so a "stick figure" and calling her "emaciated". Many people are just born that way, and I wonder for how much longer I will have to hear my body type criticized and bashed by "real people".

1:38 PM

 
Anonymous Tylor Tongkatali said...

Great post.I really enjoyed to read this post....Thanks for sharing this.

3:57 PM

 

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